If you’ve never tried a dildo before, don’t worry too much. It’s a pretty intuitive experience. First of all, choosing the right dildo, the only important thing is choosing one that suits your needs and desires. Secondly, try different positions while using it. The last one is always using lube, your safest choice is a classic water-based lubricant. It cleans off easily, and it doesn’t stain, but it’s hypoallergenic and non-toxic.

Before inserting the dildo, turn yourself on and make sure you’re relaxed, see what it feels like when you rub it on the outside of your body. Use it to massage and stimulate external genitalia such as the vulva, labia, or anus. Once you begin to penetrate yourself with the dildo, start slowly moving it in and out. Once you are comfortable using the dildo, you can experiment with different rhythms and speeds.

Make sure you are using a waterproof toy if you’re going to be bringing it into the shower with you. Always use silicone-based lube, because it has water-resistant so it won’t slide right off of your toy when you put it on.