Bondage sex is a form of BDSM where one person ties up their partner in a sex position. Sexually arousing for some, as the exchange of power is exciting, and the helplessness of being bound allows some people to really let go and enjoy themselves.

If you’re planning to tie your partner to the bed, you can place a central ring at the midpoint of the bottom of the bed. This facilitates the aptly named “T” position, with feet together and arms to each corner at the top of the bed. You can use bondage ankle cuffs by threading a small stainless steel chain-link through each cuff, so you or your partner can substantially limit the amount of scope for wriggling.