First things first, you’d better get to know your vibrator first if you want to figure out how to use a vibrator. From there, get familiar with the settings on the vibrator. If it is your first time, is to start slow and use a low setting.

This is especially important if you are particularly sensitive down below and if you don’t like surprises, use the vibrator on less sensitive areas of your body first, such as your hand or arm, to get to know the vibes you can expect.

If you want the vibrator to be inserted more smoothly, lube can make the experience more enjoyable because it helps the toy slide on your skin without getting stuck or tugging.