Always start with soft cuffs, such as silicone cuffs. These elastic handcuffs allow you to explore the restraints without worrying about getting stuck. You can play around with control, all in the comfort of knowing there are no pesky keys to lose.

To unlock standard handcuffs, simply Insert the handcuff key and turn it counter-clockwise, as this disengages the double locking bar or you can use a paperclip, bobby pin or other metal object to act like a key by bending it a similar length to a standard handcuff key. An easy method to use a paperclip is by opening the clip, sticking one end all the way into the lock, and bending it long ways to make a short-looking L.